You may have noticed Monday’s incomplete post about waiting. At the time, I was in the waiting room at my physiatrist’s office. On tap was my treatment for a frozen shoulder, namely a corticosteroid injection into the shoulder capsule (to reduce inflammation) and manual manipulations to break up the scar tissue that’s been keeping my […]
January 20, 2012
Red Writing Hood: Salt Water
“Please,” I said, through tears. Salty, danger-on-the-highway-inducing tears. “Please let’s just take this exit. We can go to the beach.” I didn’t really expect him to say yes, I just needed to fight. “You know I can’t” he said, looking out of the window transfixed as the exit for Half Moon Bay passed us by. […]
January 18, 2012
Needles and electricity go together like…
So this morning I had a NCT (nerve conduction test) and an EMG (electromyogram). I would give you a link to these on Wikipedia, but there’s a blackout going on dontchaknow. You’ll have to look them up yourself tomorrow if you’re really curious. This is in re: my frozen shoulder. At my last appointment the […]
January 18, 2012
So I take my baby to the liquor store…
… I’m pretty sure that doesn’t make me a bad mom. Pretty sure… I probably shouldn’t take so much delight in the odd looks I get from passersby in Premier Liquor when M and I walk down the aisles with little G in his car seat in the shopping cart, but there it is. I […]
January 12, 2012
About that book I’m [not?] writing…
I am tickled pink and ridiculously excited about the prospect of writing my non-fiction book! Already some of you have written to me with kind encouragement and advice, and for that I am so thankful. At this point, what’s required is that I write the “proposal”. As it turns out, when you’re shopping a non-fiction […]
January 11, 2012
If it doesn’t move, force it!
I know… not usually sound advice. But apparently in the case of my frozen shoulder, it is. I’ve been dealing with increasing shoulder pain and decreasing shoulder mobility since G was born. For a while I chalked it up to stiffness from holding G in my left arm so often. Eventually when it started to […]
January 10, 2012
Extraordinary Conversation
Today on Facebook I was confronted with a very interesting conversation situation. I’m going to share it with you (with all names changed) because I can’t imagine not sharing it, for all sorts of reasons. I’ll be using actual quotes, I’m not making any of this up. Comments about my thoughts will be inline in […]
January 6, 2012
Red Writing Hood: Epitaph
Somehow, his feet moved. Left. Right. Left. Right. As if walking were actually an involuntary reflex propelling him forward. Had he remembered the napkin? He always wrote on napkins, why was that? Pat the coat pocket. Pat the back pocket. Dig in the pants pocket. No napkin. But here he was, feet now lead, sinking […]
January 5, 2012
Goodbye Tree
Yesterday evening we took down our Christmas tree. I wasn’t ready. I’m STILL not ready. I go downstairs to the living room and I’m stunned each time by the now yawning cavernous space by the front windows. I don’t really understand how Christmas went by so quickly this year. I know I’m getting older and […]







January 25, 2012
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